Wii20100815-Entry086-Removing Boulders

The previous two weeks were spent discussing the types of conflicts we experience in relationships and, specifically, in marriage. Now we come to the big question: what do we DO about the conflict?

Tim discusses the two parts of every conflict, the path to take in any conflict, and why some conflicts are easier to resolve than others.

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

Follow along with the class notes (PDF).

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Wii20100613-Entry080-Fence Wars

Where are the specific conflicts likely to happen when we try to establish fences – or because we don’t? What are the signs that you might have some problem fence areas?

Tim talks about The Family You Grew Up With and gives steps for handling those problem areas.

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

View the Class Notes (PDF).

Listen to the class.

Wii20090816-Entry041-Fixing the Problem, Part 2

 

When there is trouble in your relationship – whether at home or work, with the spouse, children, or friends – how do you not only understand the problem, how do you FIX it?

Tim continues our discussion of Fixing the Problem, based on teaching by Alan Godwin and his book, How to Solve Your People Problems.