Wiilationships

Where are the specific conflicts likely to happen when we try to establish fences – or because we don’t? What are the signs that you might have some problem fence areas? Trudi talks about the Fence Wars we have in Marriage today. Specifically, we talk about the intruders that would try to come inside and [...]

Trudi leads the discussion of Values in marriage and the #1 value that must be present. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids. Download the class notes (PDF). Listen to [...]

Trudi wraps up our discussion from last week on Adultness, then turns to the question of the day: Do you have want you want? This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for [...]

Trudi finishes the discussion of Ten Laws of Fences and turns our attention to the Myths we sometimes believe about our fences. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids. Class [...]

Trudi picks up our teaching of the Ten Law of Fences by focusing on the fourth law – the law of respect. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids. Listen [...]

Listen to the January 17th class Good Fences define the property lines of our life. What is me and what is not me? When can I say no? When should I say yes? Tim leads the discussion in this entry, talking about the problems that are common when trying to establish boundaries. He then begins [...]