Wiilationships

Here is the video we used in class on April 11, 2010. It is a discussion of good anger vs. bad anger. [Your browser does not support frames or is currently configured not to display frames. Please contact tech support if you are unable to configure your browser for frames.]

Trudi revisits some of the myths that we believe. These myths keep us from establishing healthy fences in our relationships. Today we look at anger. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries [...]

Tim takes us through some of the things that seems to be true about our fences – but really are not. We call them myths, and they stand in the way of really good fences. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their [...]

Trudi discusses the Tenth Law of Fences. We might have established many fences in our life, with our spouse, our children, our co-workers, our friends – but we did not perform a critical step…we did not tell them. Trudi talks about the need to make our fences visible. This teaching arc is based on the [...]

Tim talks about the Ninth Law of Fences. Good fences require action. Many times we fail with establishing and maintaining good fences because we refuse to make the tough choice, have the difficult conversation, or do the thing we fear the most. This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and [...]

Listen to the January 17th class Good Fences define the property lines of our life. What is me and what is not me? When can I say no? When should I say yes? Tim leads the discussion in this entry, talking about the problems that are common when trying to establish boundaries. He then begins [...]