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Wii20100606-Entry079-Wiivaluation, part 2

admin — Sun, 06 Jun 2010 14:35:48 +0000

This is the second half of our discussion on the values that are needed for healthy relationships in marriage. We used three video clips, which are available on the preceding post, which come from www.CloudTownsend.com and the teaching of Dr. Henry Cloud.

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Wii20100530-Entry078-Wiivaluation

admin — Sun, 30 May 2010 15:00:00 +0000

Tim looks at Values #2 and 3, as we discuss the most important values in relationships.

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

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Wii20100530-Media files

admin — Sun, 30 May 2010 14:30:09 +0000

We used two of the CloudTownsend.com clips today as we looked at Values #2 and #3.

The first clip is entitled “The Value of Loving Others”.

The second clip, covering the third value, was The Value of Honesty.

Both of these clips, as well as many more, are available at www.CloudTownsend.com.

Wii20100425-Fences for Our Own Character

admin — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 14:31:34 +0000

Trudi talks about the Fences and limits that are needed for own character. This is part of the larger discussion of how to be more lovable.

The video used in today’s class will be posted separately.

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Wii20100425-Media from today’s class

admin — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 14:30:04 +0000

Here are the different video clips we used today in class.

The first clip we used was this on Conceding Control…
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Trudi ended the class by showing these clips on judgmentalism…

Wii20100418-Entry072-Fence Me In

admin — Tue, 20 Apr 2010 21:49:25 +0000

Tim wraps up our discussion on Fence Myths and turns to the subject of constructing fences on ourselves. The most urgent we have for building fences in our lives is in limiting ourselves in order to provide freedom for others.

(The video used in today’s class was posted separately.)

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Video from April 11, 2010

admin — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 16:17:26 +0000

Here is the video we used in class on April 11, 2010. It is a discussion of good anger vs. bad anger.

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Wii20100411-Entry071-Common Fence Myths

admin — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 15:17:49 +0000

Trudi revisits some of the myths that we believe. These myths keep us from establishing healthy fences in our relationships. Today we look at anger.

Class Notes for April 11th, 2010 (PDF).

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Wii20100328-Entry070-Myth Math

admin — Fri, 02 Apr 2010 03:05:23 +0000

Tim takes us through some of the things that seems to be true about our fences – but really are not. We call them myths, and they stand in the way of really good fences.

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Wii20100314-Entry068-Invisible fences are for dogs, not people

admin — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 20:15:27 +0000

Trudi discusses the Tenth Law of Fences. We might have established many fences in our life, with our spouse, our children, our co-workers, our friends – but we did not perform a critical step…we did not tell them. Trudi talks about the need to make our fences visible.

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