Wii20100502-Entry074-For Adults Only

How do we become more lovable in our relationships, especially with our spouse? Tim brings the last part of this discussion, turning from limits within our own character to limits on our desire to control.

And what does maturity look like?

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

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Wii20100418-Entry072-Fence Me In

Tim wraps up our discussion on Fence Myths and turns to the subject of constructing fences on ourselves. The most urgent we have for building fences in our lives is in limiting ourselves in order to provide freedom for others.

(The video used in today’s class was posted separately.)

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

Follow along with the class notes (PDF file).

Listen to the class.

Wii20100418-Video

This is the video clip we used in class about blaming. It is from Dr. Henry Cloud and the CloudTownsend.com website.

Wii20100328-Entry070-Myth Math

Tim takes us through some of the things that seems to be true about our fences – but really are not. We call them myths, and they stand in the way of really good fences.

This teaching arc is based on the book “Boundaries”, by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend, and is supplemented by their other books, Boundaries in Marriage, Boundaries for Teens, and Boundaries for Kids.

Class notes (PDF)

Listen to the class.